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How To Get A Girl To Take Naked Pictures

Get a Girl to Take Naked PicturesIf you are reading this, you’re probably looking for some tips on how to get a girl to take naked pictures. Although I’m not as skilled as a Playboy photographer, I do have a nice collection I’ve built up over the years. So, I’m gonna share the things that have worked for me. It should go without saying that if the girl is barely into you then you shouldn’t be jumping to asking her to pose nude for you. If you don’t have at least a bit of attraction and trust, it will just make her think you’re creepy.  However, if there is some attraction there, you may just be moments away from having her pose in the buff.

Make Sure You Are In  a Comfortable Environment – When asking to take naked pictures of a woman, you should be in a comfortable place. Preferably a bedroom where it’s not too cold or hot. You want her to feel comfortable staying naked. This is not set in stone, but I know that when the room is cold girls quickly get under the sheets or tend to want to keep their clothes on.

Alcohol - Although I don’t drink it anymore, alcohol is quite effective at lowering inhibitions. Having a drink or two puts you and the girl in a more calm, relaxed, pleasant, and suggestive mood. A mood where anything can happen. At the same time it offers girls an excuse to get crazy and let out their wild side. I’ve had girls say they would “never” take naked pictures, then we had a couple of drinks and they started taking off their own clothes. When I asked them about it later, they gave the old “I was drunk” excuse. Few girls get drunk after 1-2 drinks, but they used “drinking” to excuse their behavior.

Bring It Up – If you want a girl to start posing for you, then you need to bring it up in conversation. You could say tell her a story of how you like girls who are adventurous/free/open minded or mention how you’ve always wanted to take a picture of her naked. Gauge how she handles it and proceed onwards.

Don’t Make It Into A Big Deal – Believe it or not, the more important the naked pic is to you, the less likely you will get of it. If you are horny, needy, or desperate for it or other things sexually related – girls will sense it like sharks sense blood in the water! This will make anything sexually related (naked pics) an uphill battle for you. So don’t be insistent or pushy – have that, “I can take it or leave it” attitude.

Start Small – If you want to end up taking naked pictures of a girl, you should first start small. Compliment her on a great physical feature she has and ask her if you can take a quick picture of it. For example, “You have the most beautiful breasts I have ever seen, I want to take a picture of them.”

Time It Right - Timing can make or break the whole sexy pics thing, so try to discuss it when she’s in a good mood or when she’s half dressed. Maybe after you’ve just had an amazing sex session or when you’re both in her bed and she’s wearing some sexy short shorts. The important thing is to discuss it first. Another words, don’t just get out your phone and start snapping away, tell her what you want to do first and then let her reactions guide you from there.

Gain Her Trust – Tell her no one will ever see the pictures, except for the two of you. Let her know that you want the pic(s) because seeing her naked turns you on. I know it can be tempting to let your friends see the pics, but if you want this to be a repeat event – don’t share them with anyone. I know how bad you probably want to show off to your boys, but that’s a risk because one of them could tell her about it.

Make It Fun – Once she allows you to take a picture, make it fun for her. Tell her to pout, make a sexy face, blow you a kiss, etc. If you’re both having fun, a woman’s naughty side will gradually come out. You can even pretend she’s a model and you’re a photographer. You know – role-play!

Show A Sign Of Good Faith – Ask her to chose her favorite out of all the pictures you took. Then go through the pics and show her your favorite. Tell her only those two will be kept. Proceed to delete the rest of photos while she is with you. This will ensure there are only a couple of naked pictures and that the experience was something you both enjoyed. It will also build trust for future photo shoots.


If she has objections you will have to address them. Here are some of the most common objections and ways of dealing with them.

Moving Too Fast

If a woman says that she does not know you and that you are moving too fast, it’s usually a comfort issue. You will need to make her feel more comfortable. She is rejecting the idea because, she does not know enough about you. She really doesn’t know if you will share the pictures with others or keep them to yourself. Since she is unsure, she will decline to pose naked.

In this case, you need to back off. Tell her, “We don’t have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, let’s just chill.”  Then proceed to tell her more about yourself (share stories, experiences, etc). Basically build more of a connection. Depending on how she feels afterwards, you can try again or wait until some other time. You will have to use common sense and see if she is open to the idea. If not, don’t push it. I had a few times where a girl initially said no. I didn’t push it and a few days later she brought it up. Just goes to show you, that being patient and laid back can go a long way towards making things happen.

Is Afraid Someone She Knows Will See Them

Tell her it’s cool and that you won’t take a picture of her face, just her body. This should disarm her objections since no one will be able to recognize any of her intimate areas unless they are already familiar with them.

If she still insists that she doesn’t want to, then there is another issue. Maybe she’s not comfortable enough yet or maybe she does not trust you or maybe she does not want you to have them. Back off and tell her it’s ok. Don’t push things, just slowly probe her with a few questions and try to read in-between the lines.

She Says She’s Taken Them Before And The Guy Shared Them With Everyone

In this case, get on your computer and “Google” them, they’re already on the internet! Just kidding. In this instance it’s definitely a trust issue. Basically she was open to it before, but because some guy wasn’t able to keep the pics to himself, he ruined it for everyone else. So just work on building more trust.

Again, start small and don’t make it into a big deal. Tell her something like, “Well, I’m not like other guys, I’m not interested in the typical sexy pics. (switch to sexual tone) I want a pic of your…(pause)… ankle, and then…we will move to your amazingly sexy…(pause)…elbow! Oh yes.”

Keep it light and fun, then snap a photo of her ankle. Then tell her to pose her elbow. Proceed to tell her, “I promise to keep these very sexy pics to myself without sharing them. It will be challenging, but I will do this for you. If I do this successfully for a week, we will take even sexier ones. Deal?” If she is not laughing by now, move on because she is probably a prude. You probably won’t have to wait a week, you can try pushing the envelope with, “No, wait, I must have one of the jaw as well. Yes, very nice. And the shoulders. Amazing! Oh, wait, what do we have here? The ladies, yes, they are twins, just one quick one. Yes, good. Nice.”

Hope I’ve given you something to think about. If you have any other questions, hit me up in the comments section below.


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