Many of my friends don’t think so. They don’t believe they can improve their dating lives at all, let alone that you can learn how to attract women at will – let alone that you can do it in seconds.

My friends think I am naturally skilled. It certainly appears that way. When I approach women, it looks easy. And it should – I’ve been doing it for over 17 years. I can spot all the subtle attractions signals girls send out.

I’ve told a few of my friends that I was a virgin up until my twenty-first birthday, but they thought I was joking. Most of them said something along the lines of “You were born this way, we weren’t.” Saying I was born with the skills to attract women is like saying Tiger Woods was born with the skills to be a great golfer. Neither is true. We both practiced.

“How much?” you ask.

Well…A LOT!!!

And that’s the good news. No matter who you are and what your situation is, you can learn to attract women. It may take you a few weeks, a few months, or a few years – it all depends on you. We are all different. We all have different strengths and weaknesses.

If you are in your late forties, you are going to have a harder time approaching, talking to, and attracting women in their early twenties. Your age will hinder you to some extent, but it should not stop you. You’ll just have to work a bit harder than a young buck.

If you are overweight, you are going to have a harder time sparking attraction when you first approach a woman. It will be a bit harder for you than it is for a guy who’s in really great shape.

Doesn’t mean you can’t do it.

If you are short, girls will make it more difficult for you to talk to them. You may need to make more approaches in order to find a woman who will not care about your height.

Still, you will find her.

No matter what your current dating situation looks like, you can improve it. Take it from me. It can be done. You just have to believe it and start practicing. Learning how to attract women is like any other skill – the more you practice, the better you become.